Miguel Hernández: a testimony of life and resilience in the face of HIV

Miguel Hernández, a carrier of the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) since his diagnosis at the age of 25, has become a living testament to the ability to overcome the adversities posed by this disease. More than two decades ago, when he received the news of his condition, doctors predicted a life expectancy of 20 years. However, today, at 48 years old, he has surpassed that expectation and continues to face life with determination. His story began in December 1999, when, after accompanying a friend to get tested for HIV, he was forced to confront his own fears. The announcement of his positive result plunged him into a state of denial and fear. He recalled how the lack of sexual education and the social stigma surrounding HIV led him to misconceptions about the disease. Even though science had made significant advances since the 1980s, Miguel still felt overwhelmed by the horror stories he had heard about the virus. In his account, Miguel mentions how his friend, who was also diagnosed, did not have the strength to accept his condition and, unfortunately, did not survive. This loss deepened his sadness for those who have passed away due to HIV. "Being a survivor is a privilege that saddens," he reflects, acknowledging that he has learned from the choices of friends who could not cope with their diagnosis. Miguel also reveals his struggle with accepting his condition. For a time, he refused to seek treatment and remained in a state of denial that led to serious health issues. It was only after being hospitalized for pneumocystosis, a lung infection common in people with HIV, that he decided to start his antiretroviral treatment. This change marked a turning point in his life, and since then, he has maintained a rigorous discipline with his medication. Living with HIV has required Miguel to make significant adjustments to his lifestyle. From a balanced diet to reducing alcohol consumption and giving up partying, every decision has been driven by the need to care for his health. His three dogs, whom he walks daily, have become his motivation to stay active and balanced. Over the years, Miguel has witnessed advances in medicine, but he has also experienced the loss of friends who, despite receiving similar diagnoses, have not managed to keep up with their treatments. "I have been very consistent," he asserts, emphasizing the importance of adherence to antiretroviral therapy as the key to his well-being. His experience has given him a unique perspective on life and death; although he has lived with the fear of death since his diagnosis, Miguel has decided not to let this paralyze him. "Since I received my diagnosis, I have waited for death to come, but I did not stop: I lived my life," he shares with a sincerity that invites reflection. Over time, he has learned to manage his health proactively and to seek alternatives when necessary. His desire to continue living focuses not only on the quality of his life but also on the hope that one day there will be a cure that eliminates the discrimination and stigma associated with HIV. "We must not only think about preventing people from contracting this virus but also about ending the discrimination, fear, and stigma it causes," he emphasizes. Miguel Hernández is a living example of resilience. His story not only illuminates his personal journey with HIV but also serves as a reminder that with determination, support, and care, it is possible to challenge the darkest expectations. As he looks to the future, his hope remains steadfast that science will advance further, and that one day, all those living with HIV can experience life without the burden of stigma and fear. His testimony is a beacon of hope and a call to action to continue the fight against HIV and its consequences in society.